Moving On & Finding Home

AtHomeInTheWorld_CVR_500I’ve written before about this tension I always feel as a TCK between trying to be content where I am, and at the same time missing the place or the culture that I am without.

I read books about the spiritual discipline of rootedness, of staying in one place and getting connected even though it isn’t perfect (heck, I’ve even written about that!) … but it’s still always a struggle. I live in rented apartments and I get itchy and long to paint the wall, to pick out my own dishes, and not just use ones from Goodwill (because why invest?) I get tired of feeling like there’s no place that’s really mine. I want to build a nest. I want to borrow sugar from my neighbor.

But the other part of me wants to travel the world and live out of a backpack, and never settle anywhere. The thought of getting a mortgage makes me feel like I’m signing a death notice (even though I know you can always sell a house). As I accumulate stuff I am mentally thinking, “Will this fit in a suitcase?”

So I loved getting to read Tsh’s new book At Home in the World, where she wrestles with some of these same ideas. Tsh’s book is all about their family adventure of traveling around the world in a year. They go to China, Hong Kong, Thailand, Singapore, Australia, New Zealand, Sri Lanka, Uganda, Ethiopia, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Morocco, France, Italy, Croatia, Kosovo, Turkey, Germany and England…. all with three kids, all with one backpack each.

Part of the joy of this book is just learning about new cultures and foods, and the quirky, funny adventures they had. Tsh is a beautiful writer, and her descriptions of the scenery, the food, and the people throw you into the different places immediately. There’s also just enough “travel detail” that the curious reader (like me) who’s just thinking, “How, logistically speaking, did they manage this?!” can get an idea, without being bogged down.

I loved her description of Victoria Falls (it reminded me of our trip there), and I also loved hearing about New Zealand’s scenery, the food in Turkey, and their little home-away-from-home in the South of France.

Throughout all the travel anecdotes, Tsh is exploring the question—what makes home? Is it just being together with our family, or is there more? Does place play a role? Is it familiarity? How can we satisfy the “travel –itch” part of ourselves while also honoring our “home-body” side? Can we still go adventuring even though we have kids now?

Sunset chaser

The timing of this book couldn’t have been better for me, because as David and I get ready to have a little addition to our family in May, as well as get ready to move across the other side of the world… these are all things we’re thinking about, too! As a reader of Tsh’s blog, I jumped at the chance to read a pre-release copy of the book in exchange for sharing about it with my blog readers if I enjoyed it. Um. Yes. I enjoyed it!


5 thoughts on “Moving On & Finding Home

  1. I grew up moving all over the West.

    Then my parents spit up.

    A few years later, I lost my marriage.

    I became a homeless minister – sleeping on the streets.

    I am no fan of Lubbock, Texas (I am from the mountains and this is the dusty plains). But I sure try to make it my home.


    1. Sorry about the typo there… My parents did not spit up. They split up.

      My kids, though…

      Thanx for the great blog post. I too think on these things. I read Beyond Homelessness by Bouma-Prediger and Walsh several years ago, and that book really made me wrestle such questions…


      1. I’ll have to look that up! At the end of the book, Tsh talks about the nuns of Our Lady of Mississippi Abbey who take a Vow of Stability. They say the purpose of this is “resisting the temptation to escape the truth about ourselves by restless movement from one place to the next.” … building community where you are, warts and all– that takes grace- and I’m thankful there are those like you who are willing to make a home with the homeless for Jesus sake!


  2. I should check this book out, thanks for bringing it up! I also have a part of me that wants to settle, but at the same time I can’t imagine being at the same place for an extended period of time. Such a dilemma… Also, I couldn’t help but laugh when you said “Will this fit in a suitcase?” because that is totally ME.


    1. I think you’ll really enjoy the book, thanks for stopping by! Also- I honestly think this whole minimalist movement is a saving grace for TCK’s like me, because instead of looking like we’re mal-adjusted and can’t commit to one place, we can just be minimalist & trendy. 🙂 🙂


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